"When we were dating and newly married, I KNEW that I had 100% of my husbands heart and thoughts. Now I feel like I'm only an afterthought in his day." Unfortunately, many women can empathize with the thoughts of this wife. Read about the steps that can be taken to win back the heart of your husband. Step #1 - It's All About 'Me"... Take a look at the things you can do to bring more peace and happiness to your life. Are you taking DAILY 'me time' where you focus on uplifting and inspirational ...
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In medival times the 'keep' was the central tower that formed the heart of the castle. It was the most defended area of a castle. With that in mind, if we are to 'keep' our husband in love with us, we need to always 'keep' our husbands needs close to our heart and defend our relationship at all times. We need to defend our marriage relationship by not allowing it to fall into a boring routine, defending against affairs, maintaining a healthy sex life, defending against being critical, and ...
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There are many more resources for finding the right mate today than there were as little as 20 years ago. One of the methods that enjoys a great deal of popularity among singles is the personals - both in newspapers and online. While meeting and establishing a relationship with someone through an advertisement has definite drawbacks, stories are often told of such associations leading to a happily married life. One of the first things to consider, once you've made the decision ...
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If you ARE looking for that perfect relationship, stop reading this article and do one of two things: (1) Go to one of those websites that promises something like that and be 'taken' again, or (2) Brush up on your emotional intelligence skills. Looking for anything perfect is an unrealistic expectation. Promising that is a ploy people use to sell you things! It's also a personality trait that will make your life miserable. Perfectionists expect too much of themselves and others, and though it ...
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a href="http://www.christianet.com/cgi-bin/communitylogin.cgi?id1=0 ">Christian singles are plentiful no matter what age you are looking for and how much you want a relationship. A lot of times people think that it is a hard thing to meet Christian singles; but in all actuality it is pretty easy. Christian singles can be found in so many different places. If you want to meet Christian singles, you can look at church, school, or even on the Internet. So many groups cater to Christian singles ...
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Should you spy on your cheating husband or wife? You believe you see signs of a cheating spouse. The need to know whether your spouse is cheating and EXACTLY what kind of cheating is taking place is often strong. There are a number of reasons why the drive to spy is powerful. Here are seven: 1. Trust is a big reason, not of your partner, but yourself. Probably for some time you have sensed something is different or questioned the change of behavior in your partner. Perhaps you confronted your ...
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Cheating is different from infidelity? Yes, I believe so. Signs of a cheating spouse will be different from signs of infidelity. In talking to thousands of people embroiled with a cheating spouse or infidelity over the past two plus decades, I've noticed a difference. In our society the word cheating carries different meaning than infidelity. This is important for someone discerning the signs of a cheating spouse or the signs of infidelity. A person who "cheats" is different from someone who ...
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Those who knew me when I wore a young parson's suit and tie would willingly attest to the fact that I reigned as the "flip-flop" king, and to be honest, I was rather happy in this position with no desire to resign. Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, "Consistency is the hobgoblin of small minds." If that is true, I have a more than ample mind. For some reason, certain persons (and you know who you are) are fanatics when it comes to consistency. I don't want to be guilty of dropping names, heaven ...
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One of the great joys of living with an apartment full of Christians is the ability to host great events that glorify God. With your roommates, you can provide other Christians with wonderful fellowship opportunities as well as ministry events. Let's look at a few ways to organize and implement some of these ideas. First, consider your various gifts. If one of your roommates is armed with Bible knowledge and excited about studying, perhaps you have the beginnings of a weekly Bibles study. If ...
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When you first began looking for solid Christian roommates to live with, it seemed that you would never find anyone. You may have felt like the only Christian in your new neighborhood. But eventually you will discover a new problem. You will have to chose from a handful of potential roommates. If you've just started looking, it may seem like a great problem to have, but making that final choice is difficult and has long-lasting ramifications. Let's look at some ways to make a wise decision when ...
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